Archive for February, 2011

Entrepreneurship Reality Check

Followers of this blog will know that for the past three years, I have been running my own marketing consulting business (at www.convertinnovations.com). During that time, I have had clients of all sizes, worked on interesting projects, and have tripled the business, then shrunk it down again. I have learned a lot of lessons in my years as an entrepreneur, and I would like to take the opportunity to share them:

  • Not all entrepreneurs are these amazing inspirational people. Some people are entrepreneurs because they cannot get a regular job, or they can’t stick with one. I went into it with this idealized view of people who chose the independent route, not realizing that many are there because they have no other choice, and many are totally not inspirational at all. Also, a lot of entrepreneurs idolize large companies, rather than seeing small enterprises as the best.
  • Employees will never care about your business as much as you do. No matter how good someone is in interviews or discussions about a job, they will never be as invested. I realized that it is much better to work with complimentary and equal people, rather than having a full-time employee.
  • It is not impossible to do business with friends and family, but it can complicate the relationship. Although it is fun to work with friends at first, it can be challenging as well in terms of maintaining the friend-side of that relationship.
  • As an entrepreneur, you have a lot of freedom, but you also have a lack of security. Even accounts that seem rock-solid for years can change with no warning. It is important to keep your eyes open at all times for new opportunities in case this happens.
  • The vast majority of business owners in Canada are white men. If you are thinking of entrepreneurship as a way to change the status quo in terms of our established social hierarchy, it is not that easy.
  • Finally, always get payment up-front with new clients! If they are too cheap to pay up-front, you never know if you will get payment later.

So – as you can probably gather, some of these lessons were difficult, YET, I still want to be an entrepreneur. Especially now that my son is born, being a work-from-home person gives me opportunity to be “out there” doing cool stuff, but also, I have time to be with my son as much as possible.

For my next steps, I think I will continue consulting, but mix in other opportunities, such as teaching, developing iPad apps and building a non-profit or a think tank. I want to give back to the world more, and that what is there now is still not enough. Onward we go!

Challenging the Institutional Forces

Increasingly, we live in a post-institutional world. Government, life-time-employment, life-time marriage commitment are all falling by the wayside. Some institutions, such as the church, are fading away. Others, such as the government still exist, but are operating with people having less and less of a stake in them. Marianne Williamson recently posted on her blog about Martin Luther King Jr. and how although they celebrate him with a holiday in the US, they are moving away from his core values. She says:

A Protestant theologian in the 20th Century wrote a commentary on the story of the Good Samaritan as he made his journey from what we might call “good” Samaritan to “conscious” Samaritan. The first time the Samaritan saw a beggar on the road, he stopped to give him alms. The second time he saw a beggar on the road, he stopped to give him alms. The third time he saw a beggar on the road, he stopped to give him alms. About the fourth time he saw the beggar on the road, he stopped to ask himself, “Why are there so many beggars?” Martin Luther King would not just ask us to help those who suffer; he would ask us to challenge the institutional forces that make all that suffering inevitable.

In the Western world, I think that we are less likely than ever to challenge those institutional forces. The Harper administration in the Canadian government is a perfect example. Although time and time again he is not representing Canadian values (such as the G20 mess in Toronto, the increased building of prisons when our crime rate is going down and taking away funding for women’s advocacy groups) the opposition stays silent, and regular Canadians go on with our lives.

As time goes on, it will be interesting to see if this continues, or if eventually there will be a backlash. I hope so.

Small Town Living

As you may know, I am now living in a town an hour outside of Toronto called Port Hope. It is a beautiful little town, and we live in an antique house on the water. But, since Matt has a job in the city, and the commute is crazy, we are going to have to eventually move back to a city of some sort. On the short list right now is Toronto, Vancouver and Ottawa. If you can think of a word for each city, I would say: Toronto: Work Vancouver: Outdoors Ottawa: Community After 10 years in Toronto, I found it was a really great place for career, but it is not as good for community. Ottawa is community since it is the kind of place where people still know their neighbours, and you can meet people you know whenever you go downtown, and Vancouver is more about the stuff that you do on the weekends. So – which one will we choose? We don’t know. The move is in the five-year plan, so we will see!

Being a Mom is Surprisingly Fun

You know, I have to say, I enjoy being a Mom more than I ever expected. In seeing other Moms, I saw them doing so much laundry and housework, and I doubted that I would ever want to do it. I also had a lifetime fear of giving birth, and the pain that it would bring.

But, birth was no big deal. It was not easy, but having the flu or even filing my taxes was much harder than giving birth for me (mine was uncomplicated). And, the laundry and changing diapers is no big deal either. I think that because the baby is so precious and I love him so much, it does not seem so bad. The hardest part is being tired, but even that is bearable considering the reward of having him in my life.

As mentioned in other posts, I think our world today, with information overload is so full of “what ifs” that it can prevent us from trying some of the most enjoyable experiences, such as having a baby. Yes, I am less free than I was before, but my life is so much fuller. I feel as though there was this door that was unlocked inside of me and there is this whole new world to explore.I feel more open to life and new experiences now than I have in at least a decade.

Both me and Matt can have so much fun just looking at him, or seeing how he changes from day to day. Like when he was first here at home, his arms moved, undulating like crazy. Now, he has good arm control and grasps onto us as we carry him. Wow! A grin of recognition. Cool! It is all these little things that make this experience so amazing.

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Update: in re-reading this post, I realize that I may have come off as being like “everything is perfect now that I am a mom”. That is not the case. Every day, there is a moment of going “oh my god, this is so hard” when he is crying and fussing… but he is definitely worth it…

Baby Room Paintings

As one of the first gifts for baby Allan, I made paintings of the “spirit animals” of both me and Matt, including a dragon. See the photos here. He loves to look at them after he gets changed and dressed!